A Masturbating Conversation

25psemd.jpgI’m not at all shy about it or talking about it, I just don’t do it often. But I have read articles about how you should explore yourself, so I tried it around 13/14. But I have rather have someone.

Because its an amazing feeling, as a females we have a specific part that’s designated for pleasure, but for me it wasn’t like I need this all the time. For me to be in such a blissful state I think it should be shared with someone.

Now, its like a mood setter, before when I was younger it wasn’t my thing. I wasn’t into sexual things, so it wasn’t so big to me, just something I tried after reading it in a magazine.

It wasn’t that I didn’t fully understand it, I used to read magazines and their was an article that said you should get to know yourself, before your partner explores your body. It was like step by step; you should do this and you should do this, so I discovered masturbation

It surprised me, like. WOW! OH MY GOSH what is this, I was surprised, I didn’t know the body could do that. I wasn’t into sex like that, it didn’t even cross my mind. I wasn’t into sex or anything like that, so when I read the article I was like lets try this and it was like wow, that’s amazing!

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Being that I masturbate in the present of my partner, its better to me. It’s like I have an audience, he enjoyed it, so I enjoyed it, I felt empowered. It wasn’t really about me even though I was getting the benefits.

Its out of a need as far as setting the mood. Its not really about me, I don’t really do it for myself.

I think about, the pleasure, I personally feel good when I know someone else is being pleased. Like I know if he feels good I feel good. It seems kind of selfish and it kind of is, but it’s really selfless.

I don’t use any stimulation; vibrators or dildos, but I’ve always wanted to. Pure Fingers! I’ve always wanted to use one, a dildo!

I guess its just sometimes, it’s a mood starter. It started with a kissing thing, sometimes he would tell me and sometime I would just do it since I knew it was something he liked.

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Whats the point of it then, but I usually go all the way and it leads to somewhere else. (Cumming from masturbation)

Umm, No. Its not the same, I feel like it better from actually stimulation sex, its better for me, like its both of us and not just me by myself. That’s way better any day.

Sometimes, its not really necessary, its not necessary and sometimes I do it. Why? The intensity of the situation…it makes it better. Any sort of stimulation there makes it better, stimulating your clitoris…. That makes everything better!

I don’t remember, I couldn’t even give you the last moment in time, when I masturbated

Yes, some people think its corny, my last relationship we were really into each other, we were open with each other. At first it was weird, but after a while it was fun. I think about the person on the other line, the details, the actions, what they would do if I was there or they were here.

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