First Time/Wet Dreamz

If you were a fast ass like me, like many of us were, whether you are a male or female. It’s very possible that you first time developed somewhat like the lyrics in the song. Real talk this is what makes J. Cole relatable. Let’s be honest this doesn’t sound familiar for both side.

“S/he was in math class…sat besides me used to laugh had mad jokes, the teacher always got mad so we passed notes. Started off so innocent…had a vibe started diggin it…I was a younger straight crush, trying to play the shit cool, but couldn’t wait to get to school.”

BRUH!!!! Let’s talk about it…many of us have been there. When you got that first school crush, you wasn’t amped to get to school to see them. Realistically cause that was the only time while y’all were in school that you could see one another. And them notes, just don’t get caught by the teacher.

“S/he wrote a note that said you ever had sex before???? Damn and I aint never did this before no…wrote back of course I had sex before, knowin I was frontin I said I was like a pro baby, knowin I was stuntin…hadn’t been in pussy since the day I came out one….oh you a pro homie well I want you to show me….my momma gon for the weekend, so Saturday baby we can get to freakin…talking shit knowin damn well I was a virgin”J_Cole_Wet_Dreamz_500-500x420

Don’t ever let ya note fall into the hands of the teacher, because that’s what the convo sounded like. I’ll admit I was FRONTIN, like I was a pro, many of us guys do and ladies the response is similar. When we got to that age of the free crib yeah it lead to the freakin. But that’s how we got our first crack at it.

“You know that feelin when you know you fittin to bone for the first time, hopin s/he won’t know this my first time…hopin my shit big enough to fuck wit…and most of all prayin to God don’t let me/him bust quick…I’m watchin pornos tryna see how to stroke right, practice puttin condoms on how it go right, I’m in the crib now, nigga palms sweatin…with a pocket full of rubbers and erection, that’s when my hands start touchin, ha face start blushin and a nigga roll over on top…then she get my pants unbuckled and ha hands start rubbin on me…oooh girl don’t stop…. its time for action, pull out the condoms real smooth, yeah just how I practiced, but right before I put it in she flinched and grabbed it and said I wanna get something off my mental, I can tell you a pro, but baby be gentle….cause I aint never did this before.”

That first time was filled with nervous anticipation, you two had done talked it up and now was finally the time for it to all go down. We all had those thoughts, I know I did, I don’t want her to know this my first time, I’m hoping its big enough for her, and please please pretty please don’t let me cum quick. Ladies y’all didn’t have similar thoughts? Hopefully he knows what he’s doing, cause I don’t? I’m hoping he’s not small, I mean I felt it through his pants but I don’t know? Please Please pretty Please, don’t let him cum quick… Then you get to the moment and the led up seems so fast, kissing, clothes coming off, putting the condom on and pretending you knew what you were doing. There trying to play back in your head what you saw on that porno. Yeah the first time was something a lil scary, crazy, fun. This track is life for many, it simply but eloquently lays out how we travelled down that path of losing our virginity. Afterwards the details of the event were really not spoken of, maybe in our close circle, but even then not really. But now as we’re older, more open we see that we all share a similar story, no?

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