Try…

I just want all of you…is that too much to ask….feel me down…see me bare…. The opening line of a soulful song about falling in love, “Try” from Courtnie. It’s a fitting song for 2016, since it has become the year of #ShootYourShot! Let’s jump into the attempt of having something magical and cross the…

The HOE Phase

EVERYONE NEEDS A HOE PHASE. EVERYONE IN TODAY’S DATING WORLD EVERYONE NEEDS A HOE PHASE. NOW LET ME BE CLEAR THE HOE PHASE DOES NOT MEAN YOU’RE SLEEPING WITH EVERYONE. LET ME REPEAT MYSELF, IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU SLEEP WITH EVERYONE. The Hoe Phase – defined as the period of your life where you…

Relationship Baggage

Let’s talk about baggage, because I feel like sometimes baggage gets a bad rap. But really there’s good and bad relationship baggage. Look at it like this, when you travel you bring in your baggage some of your most valuable possessions. We also bring stuff we don’t need, this is overpacking. So let’s sort it…

Curacao: Recapped

“Teach our black kids that traveling the globe is an experience that will far surpass any material item they could purchase.” On a recent couples/birthday getaway weekend, I was able to explore the Dutch Caribbean island of Curacao. Some may be wondering exactly where Curacao is. It’s apart of the chain  nicknamed the “ABC” islands; Aruba, Bonaire,…

Phenomenal Woman: Maisha

I’ve known this wonderful woman for several years now, I consider her a bestfriend. Someone that I can just rap with about whatever and never hesitate that she’s going to give me truth-filled feedback. But our friendship isn’t the only reason why she was selected for this featured series. As any of her other friends can tell…